Day 18 & 19: 'Tis Better to Give than Receive, but Receiving Isn't So Bad
This summer, an old friend from high school, Greg, and his wife sent us a care package. They put together all the essentials for our family to relax and spend time together. Because Tom had recently been laid off, they put in some gifts cards, candy and popcorn and a few movies for us to watch during "Fanny Noonie Night." (This is how the kids used to pronounce family movie night, and it stuck...)
This Act of Kindness was such an unexpected blessing, and it was only the beginning. The kindnesses have continued to be poured out from others during this time.
One friend anonymously bought my movie ticket or an upcoming girls night. One stranger had my friend Lexi deliver some money and an encouraging note. Others have quietly passed a check or a card our way, just saying they "felt led." Since Tom and I will be celebrating our 10th anniversary next month, Lexi and my mother-in-law coordinated groups of friends and family who pooled together to bless Tom and I with some money to take a trip. Another friend is helping us with discounted flights. We never really had honeymoon, so after ten years of marriage and five children... we will finally get that honeymoon.
During this month, where I am supposed to be extending all this kindness... I am being blown out of the water by you people. It is overwhelming...
In the mail, we received some gift cards from some anonymous readers. From two different states, two different people took the time and expense to mail us these gift cards. Some to pass along for the 31 Days of Kindness, and some just for us. I have no words.
So, Day 18 & 19 are not only kindnesses for strangers, but they are kindnesses
from strangers as well! It has been a great reminder that none of this really belongs to us anyways, it all belongs to the One who created it... and sometimes, we are just lucky enough to be involved in passing it along, or having it passed back our way.
Day 18. In honor of Greg and his family, we brought a popcorn bucket, complete with microwave popcorn and a dollar to pay for one Redbox movie rental.
Day 19. We used one of the gift cards we received in the mail.
I trust that every act of kindness will be paid forward. I believe that, because I have seen how every single thing I have ever given has been heaped back upon us a thousand fold.